Though it may seem only yesterday that your son or
daughter was taking a first wobbly bike ride, your
soon-to-be 16-year-old is now itching to get behind the
wheel of the family car. While you can't stop your teens
from growing up, you can make sure that once they are
driving or riding with friends, they know the risks and
responsibilities of the open road.
For many teens, driving represents freedom. No longer
are they beholden to mom or dad to get to the mall or
visit a friend. Driving and owning a car can also give
them status among their peers. And for parents who are
scheduled to the hilt, having a teen driver can be a
real timesaver.
Yet teens are at greater risk for accidents and
fatalities than any other group of drivers due to
inexperience and such behaviors as speeding, aggressive
driving and tailgating. Becoming a teen driver also
carries hefty legal and financial responsibilities.
Consider this:
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At age 16, a teen is legally culpable, meaning if
stopped for DUI or DWI or involved in a crash that
injures or kills someone, he or she will be tried in
adult court and could be sent to prison.
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The average fine for speeding just 10 miles over the
limit is $60 to $200. That's a lot of hours spent
slinging burgers to pay the fine.
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Teens who work to buy and maintain a car have less time
to focus on school work or extracurricular activities.
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Adding a 16-year-old driver to your auto insurance
policy can increase your annual premium by as much as 50
to 100 percent.
Helping your teens hit the road safely
Helping your teen grow into a safe and responsible
driver takes understanding, involvement and firm limits.
Here are some suggestions:
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Take an active role in helping your teenager
learn to drive. Supplement driver education with
practice sessions in a wide variety of situations,
such as driving at night, in heavy traffic or on the
highway. Supervised practice should be spread over
at least six months and continue even after a teen
graduates from a learner's permit to a restricted or
full license. One family agonized when their teen
received her learner permit in the dead of winter.
Eventually they came to believe that all the
supervised practice of driving on ice and parallel
parking next to snow banks put her in better stead
over the long run.
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Remember, you are a role model. New drivers
learn a lot by example, so practice safe driving.
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Emphasize the importance of safety belts.
Though you can't buckle your teenagers in or be sure
they'll keep them on once they leave the driveway,
you can require seat belt use when you are riding
together in the car. Make sure you wear yours, too.
Hopefully it will become a habit that sticks.
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Prohibit driving and drinking. While alcohol
isn't a factor in most crashes of 16-year-old
drivers, even small amounts of alcohol can impair
teens. Many families adopt an "anytime, anyplace"
policy, which means that regardless of time or
distance, a teen who feels he or she shouldn't drive
can call home for a ride.
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Limit night driving. The problem isn't just
that night driving requires more skill. Outings at
night tend to be recreational. In these
circumstances, even teens who usually follow the
rules can be easily distracted or encouraged to take
risks.
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Restrict passengers. Teen passengers in a
vehicle can distract a beginning driver and may lead
to greater risk-taking. Almost two of every three
teen passenger deaths occur in crashes when another
teen is driving. The best policy is to restrict teen
passengers to no more than one.
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Help your teen choose and maintain a safe
vehicle. Small cars do not offer the best crash
protection, sporty cars may encourage speeding, and
trucks and small SUVs are more prone to roll over.
When it comes to cars, teens often focus on
appearance-the kickin' sound system, chrome hubs and
tinted windows-but neglect to make sure their
windshield wipers work or their brakes are safe.
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Start 'em out young. Even before your child
is eligible for a learner's permit, you can teach
about safe driving every time you ride together.
Talk about what traffic signs mean, describe why you
are slowing down for a bridge (i.e. bridge surfaces
freeze before road surfaces), or explain why you are
stopping for a school bus or emergency vehicle.
They're a captive audience when you're the
driver-take the opportunity to teach.
Web links
Reading
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Sixteen is Too Young To Drive: Taking Control
When Your Teen's Behind-the-Wheel by Donna R.
and Richard M. Crossman
Driver education
The New York State Police offers comprehensive defensive
driving courses for new drivers. For more information,
contact the traffic section of your local state police
headquarters.
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